URGENT UPDATE: Newly uncovered letters and a chilling deathbed confession from legendary journalist Mary Neiswender reveal her extraordinary relationship with notorious mass murderer Charles Manson. The letters, which span over 50 years, showcase a bizarre connection between the convicted killer and Neiswender, who covered Manson’s infamous trial for the Long Beach Press-Telegram in 1970.
This shocking revelation comes just months after Neiswender’s passing at the age of 98 in March 2025. Her daughter, Kate Neiswender, has now made these intimate communications public in their co-authored book, “Charlie and Me,” released earlier this month.
Kate recounted how Manson regularly called their home during her childhood, often simply referred to as “Charlie.” She said, “What you grew up with is what becomes familiar.” Manson, who died in prison in November 2017 at age 83, maintained a peculiar rapport with Mary, despite her recognition of his violent past.
In her remarkable letters, Mary described Manson as the head of a ‘wolf pack’ filled with ‘thrill killers.’ Yet, she held a complex view of him, never labeling him purely as ‘evil.’ In fact, she once noted, “There’s good in him,” a sentiment that starkly contrasts with the general perception of Manson as a monster.
Throughout their correspondence, Manson would often express his desire for understanding and connection, claiming, “When I rise up, I’m going to bring as many minds with me as are willing to look at and accept the truth.” His emotional intelligence impressed Mary, who believed he had a unique ability to connect with vulnerable individuals.
Kate revealed that her mother’s relationship with Manson was not without its dangers. During the trial, Manson made a throat-slitting gesture towards Mary, yet she laughed it off, maintaining her professional demeanor. However, their relationship was tested when two of Manson’s followers showed up at her home, leading Mary to confront Manson about the incident.
Mary’s complex feelings toward Manson eventually led to haunting repercussions. Kate disclosed that in her later years, Mary experienced vivid nightmares, stating, “I dream things I shouldn’t dream.” This poignant line encapsulates the emotional toll of her career, particularly her encounters with Manson and other violent criminals.
The book “Charlie and Me” not only reveals the depth of Mary Neiswender’s extraordinary journey but also sheds light on the human side of a woman who dared to engage with one of history’s most infamous figures. As the revelations continue to captivate audiences, Kate hopes her mother’s story will foster understanding around the complexities of crime reporting and the psychological impact it can have on journalists.
As the world absorbs this latest twist in the Manson saga, Kate Neiswender’s reflections serve as a powerful reminder of the often painful intersections between journalism and the human psyche.
Stay tuned for more updates on this developing story as the conversation around Manson’s legacy and its impact on those who encountered him continues to unfold.
