Friends of actress Lily James have expressed concern over her new relationship with stuntman Bobby Holland Hanton, whose lively party lifestyle may not align with her desires for a quieter life. The couple reportedly met on the set of the action thriller Subversion, filmed on the Gold Coast, Australia, in September 2025. Since then, they have been spotted together at various events, including a recent DJ performance by Solomun at Alexandra Palace in London.
A source close to the Downton Abbey star stated, “She is really in love with Bobby. He’s down to earth and not like the usual actors she dates.” Despite this, friends worry that his penchant for partying might clash with James’s aspirations of settling down and starting a family.
Hanton, 41, has built a successful career as a stunt double for notable actors including Daniel Craig and Chris Hemsworth. He previously discussed his commitment to fitness and how he has modified his lifestyle, particularly after a period of sobriety following back surgery in 2020. Notably, he mentioned that he reduced his alcohol consumption significantly, shifting from an average of seven to eight drinks per week to just one or two.
Their relationship reportedly blossomed at the Red Lion pub in Fareham, Hampshire, where they were first photographed together last month. A post on the pub’s Facebook page highlighted their visit, noting that they enjoyed drinks and a game of pool, gaining a new fan club among the staff’s children.
James, 36, has experienced a series of high-profile relationships, including a five-year romance with actor Matt Smith, and more recent liaisons, including a brief connection with musician Michael Shuman. Her past relationships have often garnered public attention, particularly her interactions with married actor Dominic West in October 2020, which prompted declarations of marital stability from West and his wife.
As James navigates her feelings for Hanton, the balance between their contrasting lifestyles remains a focal point for those close to her. Friends hope she will prioritize her desire for a more settled life as they watch her relationship unfold.
