UPDATE: Micky Hazard, the former Tottenham Hotspur footballer, is calling for urgent action on mental health after his nephew, Jay, tragically took his own life at just 23 years old in 2019. In a heartfelt statement, Hazard emphasizes the need for society to listen and support those grappling with mental health issues.
Hazard reminisces about his nephew, describing him as “one of the happiest-go-lucky boys” he ever knew. Yet, beneath that joyful exterior, Jay faced profound struggles. “When I’ve finished telling you about Jay as a person, you’ll be absolutely gobsmacked he did what he did,” Hazard stated, highlighting the shocking contrast between Jay’s vibrant personality and his tragic end.
Over the past six years, Micky Hazard has been a vocal advocate for mental health awareness, founding the charity Legend on the Bench to help prevent suicide. This initiative has recently partnered with Samaritans and Mind in Haringey to launch a significant campaign aimed at encouraging individuals to reach out for help.
The urgency of this message is stark, as new data reveals that one in four people in the UK experience suicidal thoughts, with someone taking their life every 90 minutes. “We need to recognize that speaking up is in keeping with the tough guy image,” Hazard asserts. “It takes a lot of courage. It is brave.”
Hazard reflects on the profound shock he experienced upon learning of his nephew’s death. “To this day, I am still as shocked as the first moment it happened,” he recalls, illustrating the emotional toll that such tragedies can take on families. The former footballer emphasizes the need for emotional support and understanding for those suffering in silence.
In a powerful initiative, Tottenham Hotspur is set to host a match against Liverpool on December 20, 2023, where fans will be encouraged to share the message: “To talk is to do.” A film showcasing the importance of reaching out for help will be screened during the match, featuring players and staff addressing mental health issues.
Hazard’s sister, Michelle, inspired the creation of Legend on the Bench after experiencing her own grief. During a night walk, she envisioned a bench that would serve as a beacon of hope, equipped with vital contact information for mental health resources. This initiative aims to place suicide prevention benches throughout parks across the UK.
Recent research from Tottenham reveals that 58% of individuals struggling with mental health are hesitant to seek help. Hazard urges anyone in distress to speak out and emphasizes the vital role of listening. “Just as it’s important for people in dark places to talk, we need people to listen,” he stresses.
Samaritans, which provides support 24/7, reports that they answered over 250,000 calls for help during the last festive season. Their executive director, Sonya Trivedy, reinforces the message that the first conversation is often the most crucial step toward recovery.
As the mental health crisis continues to escalate, Micky Hazard’s advocacy serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of community support and open conversations. He urges everyone to take action, stating, “The most important gift that any of us are ever given is life.”
For those in need of immediate support, Samaritans can be reached at 116 123 from any phone, or visit www.samaritans.org. The time to act is now. Let’s make a difference together.
